Over the past few weeks, I'd been getting the sense that the kids needed a little alone time with me, so I decided to take each of them out separately -- sort of a riff on Dad's "ten minute game" from my own childhood. They were really eager to spend time with me, and just as excited to be out without their siblings. I think that it was good to be able to concentrate on each of them without any interruptions or rivalries (especially for a middle child who sometimes gets less attention). Perhaps that's why I started with Linus. Early in the day, we drove to the local hardware chain to look at tools and to build a kit. The activity, part of a weekly program, wasn't especially involving -- but nailing together a rudimentary "game box" with the provided tools (and, notably, ending up with his own object) was endlessly thrilling to him. In fact, I was surprised that he wanted to leave the store when we'd finished, after only an additional fifteen minutes of looking at hammers and sawblades. I think he was too excited about showing his box to his siblings to wait any longer.
Gwennie and I decided to go see a movie, and since I'd heard some moderately good things about Disney's Rapunzel film, we opted for that. Actually, I was warned the night before by a colleague that the song lyrics were pretty weak, which should have been a warning -- this friend has a very high tolerance for musical theater. And while she was right, and the movie was pure Disney (in its conventionality and sentimentality), it also had some fun scenes. Better yet, Gwennie was really into it. Maybe I've been spoiled by Pixar and even Dreamworks (a statement I never thought I'd make -- who would have thought it would ever happen? -- and yet How to Train Your Dragon is really great) and independent animation like The Secret of Kells.
Casper and I decided to go exploring. Our goal was to find a playground we'd never seen. We had pretty good results, finding an older play space surrounded by a little track which led to one of those old circuit training areas; playing at the exercise stations may actually have been more entertaining for the boy. He decided that he was the captain of his boat, and was loading and shooting torpedoes at passing joggers. Pretty entertaining, really. After we got tired of the place, we decided to go out for ice cream. Isn't that what you do after you exercise?